Cowboy Hubster

My hubster appeared in my dream this morning, and yes, it was a sex dream. He was wearing dark blue Wrangler jeans, which is amusing because last week I had mentioned how Wrangler’s made men’s butts flatter, and I preferred Levi’s that give a more rounded appearance, which is probably why that was in my head. These jeans made him have a nice, round booty. In reality, he doesn’t have a booty at all, so this was quite pleasing. He also had on a button-front shirt instead of his typical T-shirt, and it was tucked in, also something he doesn’t do. The tucking and different style of shirt could represent a change in him or improvement, like cleaning up your act. And he wore a cowboy hat which he doesn’t even own. So, it’s him dressed up as a cowboy without a horse. I couldn’t keep my hands off his butt and kept flirting with him. Oddly, his hiney was the main focus for a lot of the dream, so this could represent a few things, such as me standing behind my man or just the simple fact that I like to grab his butt.

            The scene changed to being outside a local area with a large parking lot, and he was getting in a dark hotrod to race with others. I wished him luck and grabbed that butt one more time. This is not uncommon in real life, by the way. You can ask him. After the race, and I don’t know who won, we went home, and that’s where I will end the details because, well, sex. But, did you know that sex in a dream is rarely about sex at all? It’s more about connection, whether emotional, spiritual, or even intellectual. It can also be interpreted as creating something or exhibiting power over another. Since it was very mutual, it wouldn’t represent a power play. More than likely, this one was an emotional connection. The cowboy clothing was the most unusual since I regularly dream about him and goofing around but have never imagined him in western attire. This is more like a play on persona. A cowboy is considered rugged and manly, a hard worker, and he is definitely a hard-working man.

            All in all, putting it together, I understand this dream. Clark has been rebuilding a 1954 Chevy Bel-Air for over three years now. He’s working on the final stages, and last night he showed me some new chrome he was adding… to the back bumper (his butt). His hard work (cowboy) has really paid off as this car looks amazing. Adding the finishing touches is the “dressing up” of the car (tucking in a nice shirt). The sex part wasn’t about sex but more about how proud I am of him for all this hard work. So, cowboy sex dream? Nope, just proud of my hard-working man.